I recently had a woman named Monica write me about 10 rules for sex that her husband gave her at the beginning their marriage. These rules are very good applications of what the Bible says about submission and sex in marriage. I asked how many years Monica and her husband have been married in aContinue reading “10 Rules of Sex For Wives”
“Is it wrong for me to motivate my wife into having good sex with me using money? Am I treating my wife like a prostitute by doing this?” This was part of an email I received from a Christian husband going by the name of Luke.
First of all, there is no Scriptural command or principle that would forbid a husband from having his wife undergo any cosmetic surgery including having breast implants. With that said these are the Scriptural principles which should guide a husband’s decision as to whether or not his wife will get breast implants: Principle # 1Continue reading “Should Christian Women Get Breast Implants?”
Some Christians believe it is wrong to ever use certain words related to sex. They believe this based on Bible passages like the one below: “Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.” Ephesians 4:29 TheyContinue reading “Is it wrong for Christians to use the F-word, P-word and C-words in the context of sex?”
Feminists and Church leaders have taught a false dichotomy that men must choose between seeing women either as people or as objects of sexual pleasure. We are constantly warned in the media as well as our churches and educational institutions of the supposed need to combat the “sexual objectification of women”. We are told thisContinue reading “Why it is NOT Wrong for Men to See Women as Sex Objects”
What does it mean for a Christian woman to dress modestly? Does “modest” in the Bible mean “not sexually arousing” as we often think of the term today? Is a woman’s beauty meant only for her husband in the privacy of her home or it acceptable for her to display her beauty in public as well?
Last week when celebrating their 24th wedding anniversary, Candace Cameron Bure, with her husband’s approval, posted what was meant to be a fun and light hearted picture of her husband cupping her fully clothed breast. And right after she posted it, the Christian modesty mob came for her. The sight of a married man cuppingContinue reading “The Candace Cameron Bure Boob Incident”
95 percent of Christians you asked this question to would say “Yes”. But the answer Biblically speaking might surprise you. All of us enter adulthood with a set of presuppositions based on how our parents raised us, how our culture influenced us, what our church taught us and of course own life experiences. Most peopleContinue reading “Is It Wrong For Women To Dress In Sexually Arousing Ways?”
“I’ve been thinking about this, and I have to wonder if God ever really intended for polygyny to be widespread or many men to have strongly polygynous designs. If He did, then one has to ask why he didn’t design us so that women conceive girls at least twice as often as boys. It seemsContinue reading “Why would God make men with polygynous natures when they cannot act on them?”
To all you engaged women, newlywed wives or women that have been married for many years. If you will just follow some simple principles, and accept some simple truths about men, I promise that in 99% of cases the passion in your marriage will never die. I believe as Christians we must speak bluntly aboutContinue reading “The 20 Actions of the Sexually Intelligent Wife”