Is it Wrong for a Husband to Pay His Wife Money for Sex?

“Is it wrong for me to motivate my wife into having good sex with me using money?  Am I treating my wife like a prostitute by doing this?”  This was part of an email I received from a Christian husband going by the name of Luke.

Should Christian Women Get Breast Implants?

First of all, there is no Scriptural command or principle that would forbid a husband from having his wife undergo any cosmetic surgery including having breast implants. With that said these are the Scriptural principles which should guide a husband’s decision as to whether or not his wife will get breast implants: Principle # 1Continue reading “Should Christian Women Get Breast Implants?”

Is it wrong for Christians to use the F-word, P-word and C-words in the context of sex?

Some Christians believe it is wrong to ever use certain words related to sex.  They believe this based on Bible passages like the one below: “Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.” Ephesians 4:29 TheyContinue reading “Is it wrong for Christians to use the F-word, P-word and C-words in the context of sex?”

Why it is NOT Wrong for Men to See Women as Sex Objects

Feminists and Church leaders have taught a false dichotomy that men must choose between seeing women either as people or as objects of sexual pleasure. We are constantly warned in the media as well as our churches and educational institutions of the supposed need to combat the “sexual objectification of women”.  We are told thisContinue reading “Why it is NOT Wrong for Men to See Women as Sex Objects”

The Candace Cameron Bure Boob Incident

Last week when celebrating their 24th wedding anniversary, Candace Cameron Bure, with her husband’s approval, posted what was meant to be a fun and light hearted picture of her husband cupping her fully clothed breast.  And right after she posted it, the Christian modesty mob came for her.  The sight of a married man cuppingContinue reading “The Candace Cameron Bure Boob Incident”

Is It Wrong For Women To Dress In Sexually Arousing Ways?

95 percent of Christians you asked this question to would say “Yes”. But the answer Biblically speaking might surprise you. All of us enter adulthood with a set of presuppositions based on how our parents raised us, how our culture influenced us, what our church taught us and of course own life experiences. Most peopleContinue reading “Is It Wrong For Women To Dress In Sexually Arousing Ways?”

Why would God make men with polygynous natures when they cannot act on them?

“I’ve been thinking about this, and I have to wonder if God ever really intended for polygyny to be widespread or many men to have strongly polygynous designs. If He did, then one has to ask why he didn’t design us so that women conceive girls at least twice as often as boys. It seemsContinue reading “Why would God make men with polygynous natures when they cannot act on them?”

The 20 Actions of the Sexually Intelligent Wife

To all you engaged women, newlywed wives or women that have been married for many years. If you will just follow some simple principles, and accept some simple truths about men, I promise that in 99% of cases the passion in your marriage will never die. I believe as Christians we must speak bluntly aboutContinue reading “The 20 Actions of the Sexually Intelligent Wife”