Are Strapless Wedding Dresses Immodest for Christian Women?

Many Christian women are told that it is immodest for them to consider any type of strapless wedding dress.  The primary reason they are told strapless wedding dresses are immodest is because they expose a woman’s shoulders and draw more attention to her cleavage which in turn will cause the men at the wedding andContinue reading “Are Strapless Wedding Dresses Immodest for Christian Women?”

Masturbation Is NOT A Sin In The Bible

Nowhere in the Scriptures does the Bible condemn masturbation either by specific command or by a general principle. Yet, since the days of the early post apostolic church, Christian theologians have waged a war on this aspect of masculine sexuality as well as masculine sexuality in general. And they continue to to so to thisContinue reading “Masturbation Is NOT A Sin In The Bible”

Why Sadomasochism Is Unbiblical

Sadomasochism is a word used to represent two corruptions of the human nature by sin that often go together.  Secular humanism, because it does not recognize sin, refers to these two conditions as “disorders”.  Masochism is defined as follows by Britannica.com: “Psychosexual disorder in which erotic release is achieved through having pain inflicted on oneself.Continue reading “Why Sadomasochism Is Unbiblical”

Is it Wrong for a Husband to Pay His Wife Money for Sex?

“Is it wrong for me to motivate my wife into having good sex with me using money?  Am I treating my wife like a prostitute by doing this?”  This was part of an email I received from a Christian husband going by the name of Luke.

Should Christian Women Get Breast Implants?

First of all, there is no Scriptural command or principle that would forbid a husband from having his wife undergo any cosmetic surgery including having breast implants. With that said these are the Scriptural principles which should guide a husband’s decision as to whether or not his wife will get breast implants: Principle # 1Continue reading “Should Christian Women Get Breast Implants?”

Is it wrong for Christians to use the F-word, P-word and C-words in the context of sex?

Some Christians believe it is wrong to ever use certain words related to sex.  They believe this based on Bible passages like the one below: “Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.” Ephesians 4:29 TheyContinue reading “Is it wrong for Christians to use the F-word, P-word and C-words in the context of sex?”

Why it is NOT Wrong for Men to See Women as Sex Objects

Feminists and Church leaders have taught a false dichotomy that men must choose between seeing women either as people or as objects of sexual pleasure. We are constantly warned in the media as well as our churches and educational institutions of the supposed need to combat the “sexual objectification of women”.  We are told thisContinue reading “Why it is NOT Wrong for Men to See Women as Sex Objects”

The Candace Cameron Bure Boob Incident

Last week when celebrating their 24th wedding anniversary, Candace Cameron Bure, with her husband’s approval, posted what was meant to be a fun and light hearted picture of her husband cupping her fully clothed breast.  And right after she posted it, the Christian modesty mob came for her.  The sight of a married man cuppingContinue reading “The Candace Cameron Bure Boob Incident”

How the Church Made Sex “Dirty”

For centuries, many Church leaders and scholars have seen sex as dirty and a necessary evil.  When it was encouraged it was encouraged only for its procreative value and not for the purposes of pleasure.  Once a man’s wife was pregnant there would be no procreative value to sex so the couple should not engageContinue reading “How the Church Made Sex “Dirty””