Category Archives: For Both

Enduring and Overcoming the Trials and Temptations of Singleness

Singleness is not a gift, but rather it is a series of trials that God calls all men and women to face and overcome unless they have the rare gift of celibacy. In this 7-part podcast series, I teach single men and women biblically based techniques that can help them endure the trials of loneliness, lovelessness, childlessness, unmet sexual desire and courtship using biblically based techniques. I also teach singles how to escape the temptations that happen during many of these trials.
The truth is that there are many married men and women living in difficult marriages who are actually experiencing some of these same trials as a result of their spouse’s sinful behavior. And this series can be helpful to these people in difficult marriages as well.

Is Anal Sex a Sin in the Bible?

What does the Bible say about anal sex? Is there a difference between Sodomy and anal sex in the Bible or are they one and the same? Is anal sex allowed between a husband and wife in marriage? What are the health risks of anal sex? What if a husband and wife disagree about analContinue reading “Is Anal Sex a Sin in the Bible?”

Are Strapless Wedding Dresses Immodest for Christian Women?

Many Christian women are told that it is immodest for them to consider any type of strapless wedding dress.  The primary reason they are told strapless wedding dresses are immodest is because they expose a woman’s shoulders and draw more attention to her cleavage which in turn will cause the men at the wedding andContinue reading “Are Strapless Wedding Dresses Immodest for Christian Women?”

Masturbation Is NOT A Sin In The Bible

Nowhere in the Scriptures does the Bible condemn masturbation either by specific command or by a general principle. Yet, since the days of the early post apostolic church, Christian theologians have waged a war on this aspect of masculine sexuality as well as masculine sexuality in general. And they continue to to so to thisContinue reading “Masturbation Is NOT A Sin In The Bible”

Why Sadomasochism Is Unbiblical

Sadomasochism is a word used to represent two corruptions of the human nature by sin that often go together.  Secular humanism, because it does not recognize sin, refers to these two conditions as “disorders”.  Masochism is defined as follows by Britannica.com: “Psychosexual disorder in which erotic release is achieved through having pain inflicted on oneself.Continue reading “Why Sadomasochism Is Unbiblical”

Is it Wrong for a Husband to Pay His Wife Money for Sex?

“Is it wrong for me to motivate my wife into having good sex with me using money?  Am I treating my wife like a prostitute by doing this?”  This was part of an email I received from a Christian husband going by the name of Luke.

Should Christian Women Get Breast Implants?

First of all, there is no Scriptural command or principle that would forbid a husband from having his wife undergo any cosmetic surgery including having breast implants. With that said these are the Scriptural principles which should guide a husband’s decision as to whether or not his wife will get breast implants: Principle # 1Continue reading “Should Christian Women Get Breast Implants?”

Is it wrong for Christians to use the F-word, P-word and C-words in the context of sex?

Some Christians believe it is wrong to ever use certain words related to sex.  They believe this based on Bible passages like the one below: “Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.” Ephesians 4:29 TheyContinue reading “Is it wrong for Christians to use the F-word, P-word and C-words in the context of sex?”

Why it is NOT Wrong for Men to See Women as Sex Objects

Feminists and Church leaders have taught a false dichotomy that men must choose between seeing women either as people or as objects of sexual pleasure. We are constantly warned in the media as well as our churches and educational institutions of the supposed need to combat the “sexual objectification of women”.  We are told thisContinue reading “Why it is NOT Wrong for Men to See Women as Sex Objects”